I need to let this out.
Why in any world, would someone deliberately spoil good fun in a community (RL, SL or other), by spreading direct insults to the House owners and to other guests, is totally beyond my comprehension. Yes, we all have RL problems, but vengeance and envy is no solution to anyone's problems. Lashing out suspicion and name-smearing in public chat is simply cruel and sometimes a deadly blow to those who think only of others in their daily struggle and the thanks they get, is insult. Are they too stupid to see this?
Fortunately smart people immediately realize this and the smear thrown usually stays with the smear thrower.
Again, how stupid can one person be? Is there a limit?
Quoting Einstein: "There are only two things that are infinite - the Universe and human stupidity, although the Universe I am unsure of sometimes."